12/4/2010 - Real faces of foster care 
By Emily DeRuy 
San Mateo Daily Journal 
 
The caption beside the picture of a smiling boy wearing a sports jersey describes a 12-year-old 
with a passion for basketball and cooking. It also illustrates that the boy hopes, one day, to be 
adopted by a family that can provide him with unconditional love and support. 
 
The photograph, along with approximately 70 other images, is part of the fourth annual Bay Area 
Heart Gallery. Designed to highlight the need for adoptive and foster families, the exhibit 
features images by professional photographers who donated their time and energy in an effort to 
put real faces on the 10,000 children living in foster care in the Bay Area. Showing through Dec. 
17 at San Mateo’s main library, the photographs depict children in need of adoptive families or 
lifelong connections to committed adults, as well as pictures of families that have grown through 
adoption. 
 
Beverly Beasley Johnson, director of the county’s Human Services Agency, hopes visitors to the 
gallery will also come away from the experience with a sense of the featured children’s 
individual spirits and be inspired to adopt, foster or mentor a child. 
 
“The exhibit raises awareness of the kids still waiting. It makes it personal and appeals to the 
heart,” said Johnson. 
 
The gallery focuses on older children and youth, from age eight through the late teens, which 
represents the largest age bracket in foster care in San Mateo County. Johnson and San Mateo 
County Supervisor Carole Groom said older children, who so often bounce from one foster 
placement to another, deserve the sense of stability and belonging that having a loving family 
provides. 
 
“This county treasures children,” said Groom. “We have over 300 kids in foster care right in San 
Mateo County, and we want those children to have homes, to have parents, to have siblings. 
These are the faces of kids who are star athletes, volunteers, budding comedians. These kids are 
our future.” 
 
Both city officials and foster parents alike are quick to point out that there is no standard idea of 
what constitutes a suitable foster or adoptive family. The families pictured in the gallery reflect 
the diversity of adoptive families in the Bay Area. 
 
Kelly Kramer has been fostering children for more than eight years. She provides emergency 
shelter care, and has housed children from as little as one day up to one year. She urges people to 
consider foster parenting, no matter their lifestyle. 
 
“I’ve been a foster parent with a partner, and as a single mom. You can rent a home, or own it. 
You can have a demanding career, or not. The county is extremely supportive in making sure it works
for you,” said Kramer. “I get way more than I give and it’s incredible to watch the transformation in the kids.” 
 
When Kramer is available to foster a child, she places her name on a list and waits for a call. She 
is free to remove herself from the list at any time. When a child is placed in her care, the family 
gets a mentor and has the opportunity to take advantage of other services, like a foster parent 
association group. She acknowledges that foster parenting may seem daunting to many people, 
but said it is a fulfilling way to provide a badly needed service to children. 
 
Bill and Julie Curran had talked for years about serving as foster parents, but hesitated about 
pursuing the idea. They finally welcomed Kevin, then 12, into their family four years ago, and 
they haven’t looked back. With the support of Bill and Julie’s adult children and their extended 
family, the couple has helped Kevin go from a quiet, reserved boy to an outgoing teenager. His 
previously failing grades have risen enough to land him on the honor roll. And when he first 
transferred schools, to one attended by Bill and Julie’s niece, she introduced Kevin as her cousin. 
“He’s part of the family,” said Bill. “It’s been really enjoyable, watching him go from really 
quiet when he first moved in, to a typical teenager, with the attitude and everything else.” 
 
Sonya Chaudry, who emancipated out of the foster system at 18 and is now a sophomore at 
Stanford University, said it is that sense of belonging, of being part of a family, that is so 
important. 
 
“Before you enter a family, there’s always a fear that you don’t belong anywhere,” said Chaudry. 
“Every youth deserves the feeling of being loved, of belonging.”